Hello, dear Marriage Works family,
As we reflect on this year and all the incredible stories we’ve been privileged to be a part of, we want to take a moment to celebrate you. Whether you’ve walked into our sessions as a couple, joined us for a workshop, or simply sought tools to strengthen your connection, you inspire us every day. Your courage, resilience, and commitment to love remind us why we do what we do.
At Marriage Works, our passion lies in helping couples like you rediscover the joy of connection. One of the cornerstones of our work is Imago Relationship Therapy, a transformative approach that has helped countless couples move from conflict to connection. Imago teaches us that the challenges we face in relationships often have roots in our past. By addressing these unconscious patterns, Imago provides a pathway to healing and deeper intimacy.
A key tool in Imago therapy is mirroring. This is a simple yet profound practice is often a game-changer for relationships. Mirroring involves deeply listening to your partner and reflecting back on what you’ve heard. It’s not just about repeating words—it’s about creating a space where both partners feel truly seen and heard.
So often, conflict arises not because we don’t care, but because we don’t feel understood. Mirroring bridges that gap. It slows down the conversation, reduces reactivity, and fosters empathy. When couples take the time to mirror, they step into each other’s world, acknowledging emotions and experiences without judgment. It’s a relationship-saving tool that helps break the cycle of blame and defensiveness.
We’ve witnessed incredible transformations when couples embrace mirroring. Partners who once felt miles apart suddenly find themselves reconnecting, often with tears of relief and joy. It’s a reminder that communication isn’t just about talking—it’s about listening with an open heart and a willingness to understand.
But we also know that the journey isn’t always easy. Some days, it feels like love is a mountain you’re climbing, with missteps, stumbles, and storms along the way. We want you to know that it’s okay to find the journey tough sometimes. Relationships, like life, have their ups and downs. The fact that you’re here, working on your connection, shows just how strong and determined you are.
Chris and I, along with the entire Marriage Works team, want to honour your effort. We see you showing up even when it’s hard, embracing vulnerability when it feels uncomfortable, and making space for growth when the world around you feels overwhelming. These are no small feats, and we applaud your dedication to each other and your shared future.
If you’re reading this and feeling like you’re barely hanging on, please know you’re not alone. Tough times can feel isolating, but they’re also an opportunity to lean into the love and support of your partner. And if you need a little extra guidance, we’re always here to help. Whether it’s through a one-on-one session or a transformative workshop, we’re committed to walking this path with you.
As we look ahead, we’re thrilled to continue offering opportunities to grow and connect, including our ‘Getting the Love You Want’ workshops and other programs designed to help you build the relationship of your dreams. Every story we share together enriches our journey, and we can’t wait to see what the future holds for each of you.
Thank you for trusting us with your hearts and your hopes. It’s a privilege to be part of your journey, and we’re so grateful for the love and energy you bring to Marriage Works.
With warmth and gratitude,
Philipa & Chris
P.S. If you’re ready for your next step, explore our workshops or reach out for a session. We’re here to help you create a love that lasts. ❤️